Preheat your oven to 425°F and line a large baking sheet with foil. Pat your 2 lbs of chicken wings completely dry with paper towels—this is crucial because moisture prevents that crispy exterior. Toss them with 1/2 tsp black pepper and arrange them in a single layer without crowding.
Roast wings for 20 minutes at 425°F until they start getting golden. You want them partially cooked but not finished yet, which is why timing matters here. I pull mine out when the skin looks lightly crispy and not pale anymore.
While wings cook, make your glaze by whisking together 1/4 cup honey, 1/2 cup BBQ sauce, 2 tbsp soy sauce, 2 tbsp brown sugar, and 1 tbsp apple cider vinegar in a small bowl. The mixture should look smooth and glossy. Stir in your 2 minced garlic cloves and 1 tsp grated ginger until combined.
After the first 20 minutes, carefully pull wings from the oven and brush half the glaze generously over all pieces. Return to the oven for 15 minutes and watch them—you'll see the glaze starting to caramelize at the edges.
Remove wings again and brush with remaining glaze, then add the final 10 minutes at 425°F. This three-stage cooking method keeps your BBQ chicken wings recipe from burning while building layers of sticky coating.
Once wings are fully cooked and caramelized (an instant-read thermometer should hit 165°F at the thickest part), pull them out and drizzle with 1 tbsp sesame oil while they're still hot. The oil prevents the glaze from hardening too fast.
Sprinkle 1 tbsp toasted sesame seeds over everything and let cool for 2 minutes before serving. Don't skip this garnish—it adds crunch and makes people think you're way more complicated than you actually are.